Cultivating community takes courtesy:
Courtesy is respecting our differences, being
considerate of each other’s feelings, and being patient with people who
irritate us.
The Bible says, “We must bear the ‘burden’ of being
considerate of the doubts and fears of others.”
In every church and in every small group, there is
always at least one “difficult” person, usually more than one. These people may
have special emotional needs, deep insecurities, irritating mannerisms, or poor
social skills. You might call them EGR
people-“Extra Grace Required.”
God put these people in our midst for both their
benefit and ours. They are an opportunity for growth and a test of fellowship:
Will we love them as brothers and sisters and treat
them with dignity?
In a family, acceptance isn’t based on how smart or
beautiful or talented you are. It’s based on the fact that we belong to each
other. We defend and protect family. A family member may be a little goofy, but
she’s one of us. In the same way, the Bible says, “Be devoted to each other
like a loving family. Excel in showing respect for each other.”
Real community happens when people know it
is safe enough to share their doubts and fears without being judged.
Amen.
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